So me and my common law husband decided to indulge in some tina well I needed to use his phone and saw this app so along with several other apps and files and encrypted files and he claims while yelling that he isn’t doing anything wrong…ok…I wasn’t born yesterday, we are both knowledgeable not experts of computers,phones coding and somewhat hacking so I know he is lying. Should I just say fuck it and let him continue or move on and leave this relationship
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He’s gonna do what he wants anyways but you can do what u want a well… obviously there’s no wrong or right way to deal with this you just need to do what makes u happy
Just make sure you own up faggot let her manipulate mf lol she could have picked me,up lol fake fucks!!!
Well, first off, what is a “tina”?
Secondly, copy all the files/ photos/ videos, etc, onto another media device. Keep it as evidence in the court case, ready for when you need it.
Well, I looked up “Tina”. Never knew about that name B4.
Be careful if you do decide to indulge cause that game hurts very bad
I would leave cuz he won’t tell the truth and change
Leave now while you can cause if he will lie about something that small an insignificant then imagine the serious big shit he’d lie about like contracting incurable disease from some hook down tha road and unannounced to u boom your life is over … just an example not implying that exact scenario just something to reference to in the sum of trust lies and narcissism… none the less only u are able to make that decision and act on it. Either way u decide I hope the best for you in this journey of life.
What other kinds of apps did u see? Cuz having this app isn’t really the worst thing in the world cuz I can be used as a security type of thing etx he could be making sure your just ok while he’s not home etc, but if there is dating apps an apps suggesting he’s messing around on the side /trying to then I say …don’t take that crap…leave his ass and demand more respect next time around…if he loved you he wouldn’t be using dating apps to try to find other “adult friends” etc …I’m having similar problem here with my man also,(he looks at nasty porn chicks naked more than he looks at me n I saw him on adult friend finder.com the other day when I looked and glanced n saw his screen on his cell (which his eyes are CONSTANTLY locked onto) im crushing this crap tomorow and you should too! I don’t play that crap…we all got one life to live…DONT spend it in this kinda relationship woman! Use this one life to just BE HAPPY. That’s it . Good luck! Hope u take my advice (I’m sadly a expert at crap relationships) is a curse and a blessing , blessing cuz I love to help others with my experiences an when woman listen to my advice n take it, there’s no better high than helping a woman see she deserves WAY more.
(Ignore this JERK woman🙄, there’s at least one jerk in every crowd, if u don’t know this jerk than disregard the crap he/she said cuz this opinion don’t matter ) n She stated she asked to use his phone, obviously hers wasn’t working! She can’t help it if she saw that crap…do you know this woman personally ? Are u involved in her relationship? I’m guessing ur neither of those (unless ur her man n ur on here just to yell at her n and try to embarrass her etc which would just prove her post to be WAY right cuz ppl that don’t do anything wrong don’t get so mad etc) but people tell us there experiences on this forum…it’s not your place to tell her what to do N judge her, have some damn compassion because you don’t know the whole story n there’s ALWAYS two sides to every story. I say if she loves him then she needs to try communicating with him to work thru it etc n if that don’t work then stop wasting both u and his time n split n go be happy .
I wasted 15 years of my life trying to get the man I was married to to change In order to better himself and our marriage n all that did was end with him cheating on me 5-6 or 7 times and me leaving his ass…don’t waste years of your life like I did hun, so u should leave him and if he loves you he will take time to think threw the reason u left him and he will change then come looking to get you back in his life…and if he don’t then there is always a lot BETTER men out there waiting to treat a good woman right!
I forgot who said this thus to paraphrase.
Women marry men hoping to change them and men marry women hoping they don’t change.
It’s a paradox.
Statistical speaking statistics are about as reliable as a local bus service actually being on time… Except if you live in Germany.
I don’t understand the question. So you found this app on his phone. It’s a security camera app. Do y’all have an agreed policy against security camera apps? or is this a one-sided agreement that he wasn’t part of? The important question is what was the camera watching? I mean, if he has a camera set up at his work or something, you gonna get all bent out of shape for him wanting to know if someone breaks in?
Bahahaha thats sum funny s*** right there. None of you has any right to judge her because of there indulgences. To each there own this women asked for feedback not trash talk and better then comments about there use of tina… Those of you that cant relate should keep your comments to yourself seeing as tho you really couldnt imagine the pain and struggle shes going through… That said me and my wife have had similar issues and honestly i love my wife enough to speak the truth to her and she loves me enough that she didnt crucify me or make me feel like a wierdo or freak. If he cant find it in him to get honest then i just cant imagine trust can be repaired but either way id say try to talk with out any judgement for what hes done and see if its mostly just watching xxx rated videos maybe you two can watch them together…might be fun. But if its dating sites as well then trust might be hard to build again cause id say hes looking elswhere for satisfaction. Some guys just like porn but im hoping the best for you
I’d agree with you on most everything, but videoing somebody w/o their consent is an invasion of privacy. There are alot of awful things he can use videos for, far beyond what some can imagine.
RUN before he starts telling you that you are crazy and starts putting effort into mind fucking u. I wish I had…now after years of psychological abuse I’m finally free and trying to heal and recover. You don’t want his shady lying ass to try to punish you for his bad behavior. And don’t call it buddy Tina she triggers delusion and paranoia.